I had debated on whether or not I was going to create a fall bucket list this year, but after pinning things to my “Fall” Pinterest board (which, if you haven’t already, you can read more about these pins here) I decided I would go ahead and make one after all.
So here it is!
We had such a fun time with our summer bucket list this past summer, and although we didn’t finish everything on our list, the fact we even created one helped us to make an effort to get out and do more. I’m looking forward to having some fun this fall!
I hope you all are having a wonderful week so far!
Soooo…I did mean for this to go up yesterday, but after having a full day I didn’t quite make it. Since I know it’s not the end of the world to anyone, I figured it would still be acceptable to still post a day late, even though we’re now in October.
It is officially fall, but it feels more like winter here. I’m calling it Finter (Fall +Winter = Finter). We already had our first snow fall in SEPTEMBER! It usually averages 65-70 degrees still in September during the day, but we’ve been hanging around the 50’s and 60’s, with the last weekend being in the 40s. Bbbrrrrr!!!
We haven’t been up to too much this past month, except we did manage to make it the fair and that was fun! Gryffin still loves horses, as do I, and the Mutton Busting (kids racing on sheep) is still a favorite to watch.
Here’s what else we were up to this past month…
I’ve seen episodes here and there, but I’ve never watched actual seasons, until now. I’m bummed we waited so long to get into it. I know Netflix lost the contract and I haven’t looked up to see when it will be leaving, but I know it’s coming at some point. *sigh*
Ugh, I promise one day you will see something here that I’m actually reading!! I refuse to take this section down.
This is my favorite pre-made cookie dough. I even like it better than Toll House cookie dough. I don’t typically make so many brownies or cookies, but I just can’t seem to help myself lately, especially with it being cold now.
I do plan on making a few recipes from scratch soon, so stay tuned for a more exciting Making/Baking section next month!
P.S. I definitely need to increase the amount of workouts I do each week, because this sweet tooth I have is just not good.
A very dear friend of mine is getting married next summer and I couldn’t be more happy for her! She has asked me to be a bridesmaid and I haven’t been able to stop looking at dresses ever since! She was a bridesmaid in my wedding 11 years ago and I’m honored to be in hers. The Azazie website has an amazing selection and I love their prices.
I’m not 100% sure yet if this is where I’m going to get my dress, but we shall see. It’s between Azazie and David’s Bridal.
Let me know if you’re interested in seeing what I pick out!
Financial instability, challenges within work, and life circumstances can be really hard to deal with.
Certain situations have been personally rough, both at work and in my personal life. For weeks, even months, I was waiting for these challenges in my life to get easier or to flat out go away. Nothing catastrophic happened, just a lot of little things were adding up to make it really difficult to deal with.
Thinking it was just a phase, time kept passing and if it wasn’t one thing, it was another. After a while it felt like I was carrying around one giant, heavy pit in my stomach.
That’s when it hit me – I need to accept the fact that it’s not going to get easier. I honestly don’t mean for that to sound negative – it’s just reality.
Life is hard and that’s ok!
The fact I needed to change my mindset finally clicked. I needed to move beyond the simple fact that life is hard to the part where I say “that’s ok”. It was time that I accepted it and stopped fighting.
We are all dealt lemons in life that we don’t like. I finally stopped whining and complaining about mine. I looked at the different situations with fresh eyes and said “okay, what can I do with this” and then started taking action.
Because I had been carrying that heavy pit for so long I had
to do a mental inventory and pin point each topic on my heart and mind that was
causing heaviness and/or pain and really examine it to find out the root
problem and find a solution.
I’ve been asking myself questions like:
Does this really matter?
Does this need to happen right now?
This is my current situation, so how can I make this work?
Some situations require different questions and sometimes it’s a matter of simply accepting “it is what is” and moving on.
Praying and keeping close to God has helped me the most. I’ve reminded myself that God is good. The situation might not be, but God is and He can be trusted with all of this.
There’s a saying that says God doesn’t give us more than we can handle – but that’s not true. We are often given situations in life that we can’t handle and that’s why we need God so much in our life to lean on Him and let Him handle it.
I don’t know if this helps anyone by sharing any of this, or if you can relate, but this is just where I’m at in life with certain circumstances and it’s ok. Life is a journey with ups and downs.
I have so much to be thankful for and am so glad God knows the future and has a plan for my life. When I keep Him in perspective, all things fall into place, even the ones that are still up in the air, and I can find it easier to rest.
I am sure this has made it on a past Currently post, but Cassie Ho has AMAZING workouts and they are all free on her YouTube channel! She also has a beginner calendar on her website that has a workout plan, including links to the videos for the day. It has been working so well for me!
I took a very, very, veeeeerrrrrrry long break from working out after having a baby. I tried getting back into working out, but for one reason or another my workout routines were just not sticking.
Finally, after 2 1/2 years, I finally have a chunk of time after work that I’m able to fit in a 30 minute workout and stretch. I feel amazing…ok, sore, but amazing!
I know I’m not alone when I say I have a problem focusing. I just finished my second week of work after our vacation and there are still times I feel like I have vacation brain.
Regardless of vacation brain, I’m a daydreamer by nature and I often times have problems focusing and staying on task. Since it’s something I have to work on I’m sharing my go-to tips for clearing my head and improving my focus.
1 – Make a List / Brain Dump
I make two lists each day. One is my task list; everything I need to get done that day, both big and small, goes on that list. This helps me so I don’t forget anything and also helps me see everything all at once so I can prioritize.
The second list is for those thoughts that pop up into my head that are not work related and distract me from what I’m currently working on. For example, “oh, I need to remember ‘fill in the blank’ “, or “I wonder if I can find my dog’s medication on Amazon instead of going to the store”. These thoughts go on a second list so I can take care of them on my break and not have to worry that I’ll forget about it later.
2 – Prioritize & Take One Task at a Time
Time blocking is a great way to prioritize. A lot of people use their calendar and task list on their computer. I actually prefer a notebook. After I make my list I then take each item and I start with the most important first. I Take into account how long I think a task is going to take and I create somewhat of a timeline for my day. It doesn’t have to be set in stone and you can make adjustments as needed.
Here’s an example.
8:00 – 8:45 Task One
8:45 – 9:00 Task Two
9:00 – 10:30 Task Three
and so on
Also, finish one task at a time instead of bouncing back and forth between different items. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve jumped between projects because they were equally important and it took me twice as long to finish them. It’s easier and more efficient just to pick one and see it through until the end.
3 – Clear the Clutter
I don’t mean to go on a cleaning spree, but taking 5 minutes to clear your desk can also help clear your mind.
4 – Drink Cold Water
I actually prefer my water at room temperature (I know, I’m weird), but taking a sip of ice cold water has a way of snapping my senses and zaps my mind back into place.
5 – Sit Up Straight
There are added benefits to sitting up straight. Not only is it good for your back, but you also look more confident and professional. Sitting up straight helps with oxygen flow and increases your circulation, which in turn helps your concentration.
6 – Eat a Snack
I don’t know about you, but If I’m hungry I can’t focus. Plain and simple. Obviously the healthier the snack the better.
7 – Take a break
Sometimes it helps to get up and walk around. Having a small change of scenery and maybe a short conversation with someone in the office (or wherever you are) can do wonders.
8 – Sheer determination
Honestly, this is really what it comes down to. You can go through the whole list, but sometimes you just have to sit down, suck it up, and get it done. I even have to give myself a pep talk sometimes. Then buckle down and just do it. Simple (and sometimes difficult) as that.